Wednesday, January 18, 2023

There are also Ferrari Men

 Everyone talking about Shakira and piqué, the feisty women feeling empowered, the feminists rubbing their hands and the liberals shouting hallelujah.


But there are men like me who gave my wife more than three strokes or EVCs, which is the correct way, plus several pre-EVCs. Her family made my life hell because I'm an arrimao and she herself made my life hell according to the doctor because of the neuronal problems that caused the CVD. I was hungry and needy like never before in my life. And the people of the church for whom I almost gave my blood hated me and some came out speaking evil.


Several times I wanted to run away, several times they told me, Get away from there! I had no refuge in anyone, my friends abandoned me since my phone broke, apparently in their minds they could only be my friends if I had a cell phone - I will never understand people or certain people. And the friends who emigrated even less because, like most of those who leave, they do not communicate with you because they think that you are going to ask them for real and the truth, sometimes I just needed (and I need) someone to talk to.


My family was a seesaw because because of my publications and my opinions, every 4 months they stopped talking to me for 6 months (Yes, some being pastors and leaders) -Although I must add that in small moments when we were fine they helped me-(one week a year that is appreciated)


And I didn't have anyone, but I was never unfaithful to my wife, at least physically (I know I can be unfaithful even in thought and there are many abstract things in that).


I remember that when they told me that I could not and should not endure so much that I had to escape, my response was "I know it is not the right thing to do, I cannot abandon a person in these conditions even if my life is a torment."


But no one supports men like me (and I know there must be many of them), no one gives us a song, no one goes out saying "I'm with you" on social media.


Nobody talks about men like me, we are invisible! We do not attract the media and I think that this publication will not even have 5 likes, perhaps they will not even read it. Men like me who by the pure grace of God are “Ferrari” in the middle of a society of Twingos but no one cares! It only matters attacking the bad men!


Kisses

This was the profebubba

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