FOR ONE LESS…!

I am going to confess something very interesting and I would like you to pay close attention.

For several days now I have seen many posts on Facebook about people committing suicide. Some saying that they would like to know what happened and others recommending that when someone asks you to have a coffee with you, never deny them because you don't know what situation that person is in and that perhaps having a coffee with you will prevent that person from having a horrible end.

The truth about this is that those same people who make those recommendations have never and will never heed their own advice. We live in a world of self-absorbed people, where everyone only cares about themselves and if someone tells them that they have a problem, they pull out the "We all have problems" card.

And the truth is that yes we all have problems, but there are problems that are much bigger than others or simply, perhaps because of your training or the type of life you had, what for you is a small problem for others is a very big problem.

Gentlemen, suicide is a real and serious issue where men bear the brunt because according to an article on the rtve.es portal, men commit suicide three times more than women.

This evil does not differentiate between religious people, whether they call themselves Christian, Catholic or whatever.

I heard someone say that those who commit suicide are because they are weak-minded. I want to confess that I myself tried to commit suicide several times (more details in the book I wrote, it is in online stores, but if you want I will give it to you) And if you read the posts on my main Facebook profile you will realize that I am not from Weak mind.

I simply had and continue to have a very horrible life and seeing those who have made my life miserable be treated as heroes and even idolized while my life continues to be miserable, makes there be too many questions even about God themselves although in my personal case it is not. I have stopped believing in God nor have I turned away.

What I'm trying to get at is that it's not like most people think that those who commit suicide are weak or have mental problems. You simply make that decision when you don't see light anywhere. In my personal case, my whole family hates me, even if I have the truth on my side (I can't write everything here because it would be too long, you'll have to read the book, which, as I said, if you want, I'll even give it to you)

By the way, I clarify that in each suicide attempt God rescued me in superhuman ways.

My friends all abandoned me in these almost nine years when I needed them the most, and I don't see God as I would like, apart from ten thousand questions. I came to a city wanting to serve God and it is the season where I felt most distant from me while I live surrounded by people who are the closest thing to snakes and wild beasts.

I looked for people to talk to, I looked for my friends, I even looked for people of God on the networks and no one paid attention to me.

They must understand that many of the people who commit suicide do seek help, there are others who may not verbally. There are people who seem fine because they laugh a lot or because they post a lot of memes. Hey! I have a Facebook just for jokes and not necessarily because it's good, but rather it's an escape. Many were surprised by Robin Williams' suicide. How is it possible if she kept making jokes! That was his escape and no one knew how to notice it.

Others we see as very quiet and think that they are just "weird" or that they are simply asocial. So we leave them alone.

An interesting case is regarding women. All the women who are fond of me forgive me, but there are women who are so conceited that any approach they believe means that they want to get rid of. Oops, Sorry Kardashian linked with Salma Hayek, Gal Gadot and Margot Robbie.

Everyone talks about empathy until they need to be empathetic, everyone talks about being compassionate until their compassion is needed.

Now I want to talk about a unicorn. Yes, I want to talk about a fantasy figure, I want to talk about Christians and happiness. Friends, Christians do get depressed, if they get anxious, if they suffer and in fact Jesus himself promised that this would be the case (hehe I also wrote a book about that). And that does not mean that we do not have faith, or that we lack prayer, we are simply human and even Jesus himself felt anguish and even abandonment by God.

A while ago I saw how someone in a Christian group wrote a post saying that she was depressed and that she needed a deacon or pastor to talk to and some of the responses they wrote to her were surprising, they were things like: "You don't need to talk to anyone." , that's why they have the Holy Spirit" "Jesus is enough"

The truth is, although we have a God and a Holy Spirit to help and comfort us, the "real truth" is that we all need people! Even the apostle Paul, one of the most spiritual men who ever lived, had his confidant, his friend, to whom he even told his sadness and anguish. And I am not making this up, please do the homework of reading your Bibles and you will realize the truth of what I say.

It is obvious that we have to be careful who we tell things to because the cure can be worse than the disease, because we can end up letting off steam with showers.

But the truth is that we need people whether we are Christians or not.

Clarified all this. My recommendation is that we don't just place posts in a phase: "OH! What happened to him?!" but that we are willing to be those tools of God, that man and that ear that does not rain for people who may need it.

I remember that while I was in my city I asked several people if they would agree to have a coffee with me. None accepted. I'm sure that if I had committed suicide they would be the first to say: "Oh! Why did he make that horrible decision?"

And women, please calm down, not everyone wants to court you. Sometimes it is difficult for men to talk about things that affect us with other men and sometimes we have no choice but to go to a girl. It's not that we were dazzled by her eyes, or by her beautiful body.

On the other hand, I just remembered that on an opportunity, looking for someone to talk to, looking for someone who would give me some affection, I harassed a girl (I think it was around 2013 or 2014). So, even the one who seems to have interests half crazy maybe it's someone who needs help. Obviously you are not going to allow her to be harassed, but you can talk to her and try to find out what her problem is.

May each one of you who reads this together with God be the cause of one less suicide.

OBVIOUSLY, WITH VERY CAREFULNESS, NOT ALL ARE REALLY NEEDY PEOPLE, LET'S REMEMBER THAT THERE ARE ALSO VERY BAD PEOPLE! IT'S NOT GOING TO BE THAT WANTING TO HELP ONE WHO WANTS TO COMMIT SUICIDE, WOULD END UP KILLING YOU

About my. No, I haven't found anyone yet, I cried a lot, I pray a lot, my posts on both my serious and humorous Facebook and the books I wrote have been a way of draining, but I still cry a lot and only God continues to prevent me from My life ended in suicide.

Please help there be one less

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